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after you’re talking to this guy for a month, and always with him…you get attatched. he’s gone now, how do you get over him?
Thats a difficult question. I mean, yes I am the type of person who gets attached to people and seperation is hard. All I can say is that you have to focus on the time you had and not the time you are now missing. You have to be strong and not feel as though the time you spent together was meaningless. But also do not constantly remind yourself about how lonely you feel now he is gone because it will send you into a depression which is not good. Keep you chin up, it will get easier.
Favorite KStew/RPattz/AGreene/TL feature?
Ermmm I loved the Vanity Fair issue for Twilight last year! Amazing. I loved Kristen’s Interview magazine shoot; she looks gorgeous (as always!) Taylor Lautner’s interview magazine shoot was gorgeous and I nearly screamed when I saw it! My god he is divine. And his Italian Vogue cover was to die for!
after you’re talking to this guy for a month, and always with him…you get attatched. he’s gone now, how do you get over him?
Thats a difficult question. I mean, yes I am the type of person who gets attached to people and seperation is hard. All I can say is that you have to focus on the time you had and not the time you are now missing. You have to be strong and not feel as though the time you spent together was meaningless. But also do not constantly remind yourself about how lonely you feel now he is gone because it will send you into a depression which is not good. Keep you chin up, it will get easier.
Favorite KStew/RPattz/AGreene/TL feature?
Ermmm I loved the Vanity Fair issue for Twilight last year! Amazing. I loved Kristen’s Interview magazine shoot; she looks gorgeous (as always!) Taylor Lautner’s interview magazine shoot was gorgeous and I nearly screamed when I saw it! My god he is divine. And his Italian Vogue cover was to die for!
I’m in love with a guy, he lives in another state, so of course I never get to see him. He makes my world spin ‘round. But I’m so paranoid. He has all these girls there that like him, and their so pretty, he talks about them all the time. I’m insecure about it, but every time I try to talk to him he says there’s nothing to worry about. I mean he doesn’t like me having guy friends, at all. But if I tell him I don’t like him to have girl friends, I feel terrible. I don’t think I should control his life, seeing as we aren’t technically boyfriend and girlfriend. So I don’t know what to do. I’m really confused, and scared. I don’t want to get hurt, but I don’t know how to prevent without coming across as a…. jealous lover? I’m sorry if this seems all jumbled and doesn’t make sense. But I hope you get what I’m saying. Please help?
I understand how you feel in away. My boyfriend lives away and it can be difficult. I know it is hard not to be insecure but it is a human emotion and is totally normal. The thing is it cannot be one rule for him and another for you. You are entitled to have male friends. It seems like their is insecurity from both sides of the relationship which although is normal, it appears to be putting strain on the both of you.
If you don’t feel secure then there must be a reason for that; a gut feeling usually that you feel he is not being entirely genuine with you and from past experience, your intutition is seldom wrong. I understand that you are scared but i think you both need to sit and down and be totally honest with each other. Do you really see this relationship going anywhere? Is the distance an issue?
It makes perfect sense to me, and I hope what I have said helps.
“Oh, but you are alone. Who knows what you’ve spoken to the darkness, in the bitter watches of the night… when all your life seems to shrink, the walls of your bower closing in about you… a hutch to trammel some wild thing in. So fair. So cold. Like a morning of pale spring still clinging to winter’s chill.”
cannot wait until this tumblr meet up, hopefully you'll like me.
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I really want to meet you! I love you already!
I just discovered that it is going to cost me £13 to get to Manchester on the 19th and I am not sure if I am going to London that day...?
I will have to get to you all on that one!
